Choosing Adoption
Choosing adoption is a significant life decision, and every expectant mother has to make a choice based on her own unique situation. There is no universal right or wrong answer. The decision is ultimately up to you.
Choosing adoption is a significant life decision, and every expectant mother has to make a choice based on her own unique situation. There is no universal right or wrong answer. The decision is ultimately up to you.
Is Adoption Right For You
If you’re experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, it’s important to educate yourself on your options. Here is some information to help you to decide if adoption is the right choice for you.
Learn MoreMyth vs Fact
Unfortunately, there are still many false perceptions surrounding the adoption process. Before you choose whether or not to pursue adoption, it’s important to understand what’s really true and really false about this journey.
Learn more »Birthfathers
The baby’s biological father plays a key role in the adoption process. As a potential birthmother, it’s important for you to understand the rights, responsibilities, and legal requirements of the baby’s biological father in order to make things go as smoothly as possible during the adoption process.
Learn MoreHave Questions About Adoption?
Get answers to the most common questions potential birthmothers ask.
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How do I know I am making the right decision?
There are many emotions that correspond with adoption. The fear of regret is a very real one for many women considering adoption. It’s normal to question your thoughts and feelings about such a difficult decision at any point during the process. Only you know what is best for you and your baby. Take your time and carefully consider all of the reasons why you are exploring adoption and remind yourself of those reasons.
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How do I tell other people about my adoption plan?
Once you’ve made your decision, you can tell whomever you choose. Some women share their adoption plan with just a few close friends or family, while others are comfortable sharing it with anyone who asks. If you decide to tell others in your life about your adoption plan, telling people one at a time or in small groups may be easier than telling everyone at once. Telling those you think will be most supportive first may give you the courage and support you need to tell the rest.
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What if I’m in labor and haven’t made an adoption plan yet?
Can I still choose adoption?Yes, you can choose adoption even when you are at the hospital in labor or have already had your baby. This is not an unusual situation. Nearly all adoptive families are ready and willing to travel anywhere in the country at a moment’s notice.
“When you come across the right family you will know you’ve made the right choice for your baby.”
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